Are You Waiting Too Long to Let Your Pet Go?

How do you know when it’s time to let your pet go, especially when you keep hoping for one more sign? If you’re waiting for absolute certainty, your pet may pay the price for that delay. In this episode, hospice and end-of-life veterinarian Dr. Jack Murray shares a candid, pet-centered perspective on why this decision so often feels impossible, why certainty may never come, and what it can cost a pet when families wait too long. We talk about the signs people misread, the emotional reasons they hold on, why “they’re still eating” is not the whole picture, and what Dr. Murray means by a compassionate window. We also get into caregiver fatigue, financial limits, and why those realities matter too. BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN: • Why waiting for your pet to “tell you” can lead to a crisis • What quality-of-life changes matter more than appetite alone • How to think about this decision in a way that puts your pet first If this episode hits close to home, be sure to listen to the companion bonus episode on what a peaceful goodbye at home can actually look like. Coming Wednesday, 4/15/26. CONNECT WITH DR. JACK MURRAY INSTAGRAM | @drmurrayhospicevet OTHER LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: CodaPet quality-of-life questionnaire CodaPet in-home euthanasia directory Stuck on a pet problem? Send it here. Practical pet advice for busy pet parents. Love the show? Follow The Pet Parent Hotline so you don’t miss an episode, and share this one with a pet parent who needs it. Listen & Follow: 🌍 Official Site |📱 Facebook |📺 YouTube | 🍏 Apple |🎵 Spotify The Pet Parent Hotline covers real-world dog and cat behavior, training, pet health and nutrition, veterinary decisions, pet-care costs, aging pets, and everyday life with animals. No fluff. No guilt. Just useful advice to help you make smarter decisions and enjoy life with your pets. Help us reach more pet parents like you: A 5-star rating or review on Apple Podcasts helps new listeners feel confident trying us out. Contact: Amy@petparenthotline.com ©Ⓟ 2026 Amy Castro