Four Pillars That Transform Conflict and Pain Into Deeper Intimacy

Shownotes How to transform difficult moments in a relationship into turning points What distinguishes an abusive relationship from a partner with trauma How reclaiming your sexuality can take your partnership to a new level The four pillars that have helped Aubrey and Brian move through challenges The one question to ask yourself when you feel triggered by your partner What makes conflict the same as rebuilding your muscles at the gym Bio Brian Butts and Aubrey Slaver are relational and shadow alchemists devoted to the art of sacred partnership. Blending parts work, archetypal awareness, and practical communication tools, they have navigated religious deconstruction, addiction, separation, and infidelity and have come out on the other side loving each other more than they ever thought possible. They use radical honesty, safety, and conscious communication as the pillars of their growth. They are currently launching a relationship podcast and developing a framework to help couples transform conflict into connection. With a shared mission to normalize raw, honest relating, they are devoted to helping couples deepen intimacy, decode their stories, create safety, and cultivate a more alive and fulfilling union. You can follow Aubrey , Brian , and their shared work on Instagram . Follow Layla! 🌸 Instagram 🌐 Website 💌 Weekly Email 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts 🎶 Listen on Spotify 💋 MOOD Sexy Plant Activated Supplements 🔥 For Men: Men's Sexual Mastery 🌹 Obliss: The Sexual Masterclass for Women Timestamps 00:01:20 - Guest introduction 00:02:43 - Layla's advice for staying in a relationship that's incredibly hard 00:05:42 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 00:10:52 - Aubrey and Brian talk about what shaped their early idea of marriage 00:14:28 - Brian shares his mother wound and how it created deep conflict 00:19:52 - A joyful relationship enhances your happiness, it doesn't create it 00:23:00 - The shift for Aubrey that helped her find a way out of constant conflict 00:27:46 - Layla explores what a narcissistic defense mechanism is 00:31:52 - How to transform difficult moments in a relationship into turning points 00:36:20 - Why separating allowed Aubrey and Brian to become themselves again 00:37:59 - [AD] MOOD Sex Magic - Podcast coupon code + 2 free sticks: [MOOD Se