Validation Detox — Кассета

Are you dating, or are you collecting proof that somebody wants you? This week I'll tackle two questions. The first is about how to not get too attached in the talking stage, and what to do if you keep getting ghosted after good dates. Before I get to those, I share some wicked perspectives on reality and how I cut off my own validation: no story views, no likes, no casual dating, no DMing. It's pretty wild that right now I don't have a single person I'm interested in. I might have ADHD, but I don't believe in it, and that's a good way to describe this episode. Ready to break the pattern, apply to work with me: https://confidencechris.com/mentorship-application Chapters: 00:00 Moody In a Transition 02:04 Arguing About Purpose At A Dinner Table 18:16 Cutting Off The Validation 27:58 I Sat In Stillness 35:15 Talking Stage Without Getting Attached 50:36 Ghosted Even When The Date Was Good