Why Women Are Taught to Fear Their Anger with author Gemma Hartley

Get "Liberate Your Business" by Becky Mollenkamp at https://liberateyourbusiness.com/ FIND ALL OF OUR CONVERSATIONS AT https://yesandotherwise.com/ Author Gemma Hartley ( Fed Up ) joins Becky and Faith to talk about her new book, No One Loves an Angry Woman: An Exvangelical Coming-of-Rage Story . They dig into why tradwife content is so seductive, how self-blame keeps systems intact, raising kids after leaving the church, and the difference between anger and dysregulation. In This Conversation 00:15 Welcome and introducing Gemma Hartley 04:33 Why are we so fascinated by tradwives? 09:48 Groomed to vote for Trump: how does anyone get out? 13:26 Self-blame and the “how could you?” thread of supremacist ideology 15:45 Victim blaming, self-blame as system protection, and capitalism’s individual solutions 18:00 Systems protect themselves by blaming the individual 20:36 Self-surveillance, conditioning, and why angry women are disruptive 24:43 Sending kids to the Bible camp Gemma attended and talking about sin 28:34 Jamaican vs. white evangelical spaces and living in “polluted water” 31:20 Public school, patriotism, and letting kids explore with a soft place to land 33:51 Who the book is for and seeing your conditioning with compassion 37:49 Anger vs. dysregulation, rage on the yoga mat, and anger as a teacher 41:21 How Fed Up connects: emotional labor and the capacity to feel anger 47:04 Loving angry women, placating, and proximity to whiteness 50:23 Where to find Gemma’s book Resources Mentioned No One Loves an Angry Woman: An Exvangelical Coming-of-Rage Story by Gemma Hartley: https://link.amazon/B0bOv7oEn Fed Up: Emotional Labor, Women, and the Way Forward by Gemma Hartley: https://link.amazon/B06vGCwnY Little Women by Louisa May Alcott: https://link.amazon/B0aWMgBnn Song of the Lioness series by Tamora Pierce: https://link.amazon/B0fGUYVci The Famous Five and The Secret Seven by Enid Blyton: https://link.amazon/B0bho6IcY Yesteryear by Caro Claire Burke: https://link.amazon/B0af4sidu Trad Wife by Sarah Langan: https://link.amazon/B0fwS0nN9 A Well-Trained Wife by Tia Levings: https://link.amazon/B09y3rz7X Momfluenced by Sara Petersen: https://link.amazon/B0fS0Zkor Faithfully Dissident Daughters: Reclaiming Christian Womanhood Beyond Patriarchy by Chelsea Kim Long: https://link.amazon/B00xTkfrN Stella Maris by Cormac McCarthy: https://link.amazon/B0hNn1Jwq I Didn't Want to be Angry from Faith’s Substack: https://faithwithlife.substack.com/p/i-didnt-want-to-be-angry Heart Full, Can't Breathe from Faith's Substack: https://faithwithlife.