Overcoming Infidelity: How We Rebuilt Trust After Infidelity

Want to submit questions? Email us at hello@carlandlaura.com Our book, Overcoming Infidelity, is OUT NOW: https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/Overcoming-Infidelity/Carl-Lentz/9781668230497 "Do you ever worry that I'm going to cheat on you again?" Carl asks Laura that question on camera, and her answer may not be what you'd expect. For everyone new here since the book launched, we pulled together some of the most important conversations we've had on this show, each one tied to a chapter of Overcoming Infidelity. We start with the night everything fell apart and why we chose healing over reputation. Then we get practical: what safety looks like before closeness, what to say to your kids, and what really happens when you go through his phone. Carl shares the one response every man should have ready for when his wife is triggered, and why the grace you give should be proportional to the years of deception. Laura talks honestly about the exhausting first year, losing friends, and the moment she realized she no longer remembered what distrust felt like. Stay for the U-Haul night in Brooklyn, the merry-go-round study on why kids need boundaries, the turbulence analogy for talking to your children, "spotlight work vs. shadow work," and Laura's answer to the question she gets asked more than any other. If you're new to our story, or wondering whether trust can ever come back, start here. Follow Carl at: https://www.instagram.com/carllentz/ Follow Laura at: https://www.instagram.com/lauralentz/ See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .