Afraid of Responsibility (ft. Jay)

Does responsibility equal love? Jay shares why he’s stopped trying with girls, and why a girl pushing him to be the man he wants to be might be the thing he just isn’t ready to face. Then it flips to my anxious feelings. My body was starting to notice the distance, and I had a choice: run away, or lead with what I want anyway. We also answer three questions for avoidant men: what happens to us when someone starts to show interest, what we’re afraid of, and what would help us feel safe enough to communicate. Learn more about working with me: ⁠https://confidencechris.com/work-with-me Chapters: 00:00 Intro: Shrinking Ourselves For Others 03:30 Why Jay Stopped Trying With Girls 21:18 My Anxious Feelings: Run Away or Lead With What I Want 38:45 3 Questions For Avoidant Men