1688: Marriage Habits for Lasting Passion with Dr. Evan Money

Can a great marriage be built through small daily habits instead of big romantic gestures? Dr. Evan Money, author of Marriage of Greatness, says lasting connection starts with honest self-improvement, not trying to fix your spouse. He shares why he and his wife aim to live the same way in private as they do on stage, making authenticity and integrity part of their message. His core idea is simple: mediocrity can happen by default, but growth takes a choice. Rather than entering a partner’s “room of improvement” uninvited, he urges couples to focus on their own habits and actions. That shift can create more trust, less blame, and a stronger foundation for a healthy marriage. Evan calls one of his 3 Rs “romance hygiene”: the small, steady acts that keep affection and intimacy alive. He compares these habits to brushing your teeth, because consistency matters more than occasional bursts of effort. He also explains why marriage is an art, not a formula, and why couples need to learn each other’s needs and love-language “dialects.” For him, doing the dishes became an act of service that helped him connect with his wife once he changed how he viewed the chore. Instead of treating everyday responsibilities as a burden, couples can look for ways to bring care and joy into them. This practical marriage advice invites partners to build closeness through thoughtful actions, not hype or grand promises. https://youtu.be/MaOpcQFl-l4?si=S0eVULf7V9CWnnAE The conversation also tackles a tough question: should spouses put their relationship before their children? Evan shares his view while emphasizing harmony, speaking a partner’s love language, and taking responsibility instead of relying on arguments alone. His other two Rs are “room of improvement” and “responsibility,” which he defines as the ability to respond rather than react. That pause can help people leave blame behind, learn from a difficult relationship, and choose what they do next. Evan says life and marriage are always moving either upward or downward, shaped by the habits we practice each day. Explore his book, podcast, and marriage retreats at MarriageOfGreatness.com for more ideas on building connection and growing together. Quotes: “Your marriage is either getting better right now or it's getting worse. There is no static.” “Mediocrity happens by default, greatness happens by decision.” “Great marriages aren’t built on hype. They’re built on habits.” Contact Details: Build a Stronger, Happier Marriage: Discover the path to greatness at Marriage of Greatness Transform your Financial Future and Build Lasting Wealth with Dr. Evan Money Connect with Dr. Evan Money on LinkedIn for Insights on Wealth, Success, and Personal Growth Follow Dr. Evan Money on Facebook for Inspiration on Wealth, Success, and Living your Best Life Watch Dr. Evan Money’s Inspiring Videos on Vimeo Follow Marriage of Greatness on Instagram for Daily Inspiration to Strengthen your Relationship Listen to the Marriage of Greatness Podcast for Insights to Build a Stronger, Happier Marriage Marriage of Greatness on Amazon